I love having ME time… even when we are dating, I feel having ME time is really important. You have to spend time with yourself, rest, do something that you like and still have ME time. Who says married couples have to stick to each other all day, 24/7?? Even if you live under the same roof, you can have ME time. Sometimes I will leave D to watch and channel surf while I head to our bedroom to chill and listen to music in the dark (my favorite chill out since I was a kid) or he will sometimes go surf net in our study room while I channel surf. It is a very healthy habit and it definitely doesn’t mean you don’t love your spouse as much or such; that is why sometimes, some couples feel they are breathless for space and time for themselves.
Anyway back to ME time. I’m kinda glad D’s work allows me to have some ME time and do what I like at home. =] hahaha I love it when D is home with me but I enjoy my ME time here and there. I pamper myself with all the good food! SORRY BABY. lol I would ordered sakae sushi for 1 (all my raw salmon that D doesn’t take), order Mac with hot fudge and corn cup, order Pastamania, watch DVDs, surf net and laze around doing absolutely nothing! Haha… I’m not deprived of anything cos I feel/know that I’m luckiest as D understands and pampers me to the core. I love hanging out with my buddies and I welcome them to my place anytime! I guess when we grow older, we do like spending quality time. When was the last time I go out for the sake of going out? I don’t remember cos it must have been THAT long since it happens.
Life is good…D birthday this weekend and we have a family affair surprise for him and on his actual birthday, he has ME. We will have OUR time together. lol